{"id":1784,"date":"2021-11-14T19:22:32","date_gmt":"2021-11-14T19:22:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/?p=1784"},"modified":"2022-11-01T21:33:47","modified_gmt":"2022-11-01T21:33:47","slug":"what-questions-to-ask-those-who-promised-to-serve-as-reference","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/what-questions-to-ask-those-who-promised-to-serve-as-reference\/","title":{"rendered":"What Questions To Ask Those Who Promised To Serve As Reference"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-post-featured-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Question-scaled-1.jpg\" class=\"attachment-post-thumbnail size-post-thumbnail wp-post-image\" alt=\"Question\" style=\"object-fit:cover;\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Question-scaled-1.jpg 1707w, https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Question-scaled-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Question-scaled-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Question-scaled-1-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Question-scaled-1-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Question-scaled-1-1366x2048.jpg 1366w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 100px) 100vw, 100px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n<p>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@dargonesti?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Ludovic Migneault<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/s\/photos\/question?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Unsplash<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"df30\">References mean different things to different people these days. It is usually only requested from the job seeker, as in \u2018I\u2019d like to have you serve as a reference,\u2019 or \u2018May I add you as a reference for jobs I apply to?\u2019 The referrer seldom offers it, and this delicate balance needs to be re-evaluated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"6c9f\">This article will explore this often-confusing\u00a0relationship between colleagues for a job-seeking task that is not utilised as often as it once was. Yet, whether job-seeking or not, professionals can use these perspectives to deepen their relationships with their network and help <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/how-to-find-hidden-jobs\/\">discover hidden opportunities<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"89d2\">The Case for References<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"0a29\">As we all know, word-of-mouth is the best form of marketing for getting a job. Besides the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/should-you-hire-for-attitude-or-skill\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hiring manager<\/a> is your friend or relation, positive word-of-mouth demonstrates the positive PR any candidate can benefit from.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are five things that a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/illegal-interview-questions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">candidate should ask<\/a> of or consider from those who have promised to serve as a reference:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"90ed\">Do not ask your <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link \" title=\"colleague\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/how-to-feedback-without-criticising-colleague\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">colleague<\/a> to serve as a reference when you are desperate. As a best practice, seeking and providing connections should not just occur in need. Instead, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/german-job-seekers-visa-for-non-eu-citizens-to-work-in-germany\/\" title=\"Are you a non-EU Citizen & Want to work in Germany? \u2013 Job Seekers Visa Is All You Need\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">job seekers<\/a> and their references should value one another long before the urgency arises.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/proxy\/0*bbDxjRtru7w4icBq.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"06b5\">Indeed, asking a colleague to serve as a reference is a much softer request than asking if they <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/how-to-identify-fake-job-advertisements\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">know of any job<\/a> openings, and most referrers would more readily agree to this request. Nevertheless, as a best practice, ask colleagues to serve as references when you are not seeking a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/how-to-network-during-job-search\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">job or perhaps about to begin a job search<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"76e9\">Ask for their permission first.<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"9d0e\">To many job seekers\u2019 surprise, a trusted colleague may not feel comfortable providing a reference. Perhaps they are very busy with outside commitments and do not have time to be concerned if needed. Additionally, your colleague may feel uncomfortable providing a reference for you \u2014 for several reasons that may be unbeknownst to you. So gently ask their permission first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"ddc9\">Warn your colleagues before a potential recruiter makes contact.<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"ad10\">Before typing your colleague\u2019s name and contact info into the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/how-to-become-a-journalist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">job application on a web page when applying<\/a> for jobs, warn your colleagues that you plan to do so beforehand. No one likes surprises, and your referrers will be happy to keep them informed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"2046\">Ask colleagues to keep you apprised of contact with recruiters.<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"808f\">Ask your referrers to let you know if a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/what-do-recruiters-expect-from-cv\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">recruiter or hiring manager<\/a> contacted them. Again, this information is valuable in an application process that is almost entirely automated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"5d7d\">Offer colleagues to serve as a reference for them.<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"b0ba\">While this may seem counterintuitive, as you seek a job, ask your referrers if they would like you to reference them. You may be out of work, but there is no better time to offer assistance in the other direction. After all, your colleagues may find themselves looking for a job at some point, and your offer will remind them to call in a favour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"d677\">Leveraging LinkedIn<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"bfdf\">While seemingly a formal process, requesting and collecting references has been facilitated with social media, most notably via <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link \" title=\"LinkedIn\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/things-not-to-do-on-linkedin\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">LinkedIn<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"f2cc\"><a title=\"How to make a great LinkedIn profile picture in under five minutes\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/how-to-make-a-great-linkedin-profile-picture-in-under-five-minutes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">LinkedIn\u2019s References feature allows you to display references written on your behalf and have your concerns appear on others\u2019 profile<\/a> pages. Recommendations, when submitted, must first be approved before publishing, which brings about valuable conversations between job seekers and their colleagues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"62aa\">Because your expertise and professionalism are on display for any of your connections to read, ask those who have agreed to write you a recommendation on LinkedIn to be as specific and grammatically correct. A poorly written or vague reference can reflect negatively on you, while a recommendation highlighting your performance for a specific set of tasks provides essential insights.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"64be\"><strong>Good<\/strong>: \u2018Prakash was a team player who got along great with the team.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"b968\"><strong>Better<\/strong>: \u2018Prakash espoused a \u2018can-do\u2019 attitude and consistently demonstrated a willingness to solve problems. In late 2011, we worked on a deadline for a client with ten analysts on three continents, utilising outdated, incomplete information. John devised a solution that satisfied the client\u2019s project requirements \u2014 under budget and delivered days before the deadline. Prakash would serve as an asset to any organisation.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"aa6c\">Additionally, utilise recommendations you\u2019ve written for others to promote your expertise. Write proposals that feature depth; writing with specific, descriptive language reflects positively on you and could perhaps encourage someone reading your recommendation to click on your profile and read more about you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"261d\"><strong>Bonus<\/strong>: When a recommendation is published on a profile, it is pushed through the newsfeed of that profile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"8883\">Many overlook LinkedIn\u2019s Recommendations feature, but it provides content that can immeasurably benefit you and your colleagues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"2784\">Do Recruiters Care?<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"96b1\">It may seem archaic for a recruiter to follow up on references in a world of applicant-tracking systems software and thousands of resumes submitted for open jobs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"04d4\">However, for that recruiter may seem archaic for a recruit to follow up on references inIt may seem archaic for a recruiter to follow up on references ins and <a title=\"How to catch a hiring manager\u2019s attention with your cover letter\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/how-to-write-attention-grabbing-cover-letter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hiring managers<\/a> who are eager to discover the more human side of an applicant \u2014 or perhaps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"0e68\">While most <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/bad-job-descriptions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">job candidates<\/a> expect a trusted colleague to sing their praises widely, a tepid or flat response can be telling. It is essential to think about whom to ask as your references. A trusted colleague from a past job may be a poor communicator while on the phone with a recruiter, which may come off as that colleague feeling indifferent about your past job performance. This can hurt your chances of being <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/tips-and-tricks-to-finding-your-first-job-straight-out-of-college\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">offered a job<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"fcf4\">What\u2019s your favourite memory with them, and why?<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"1962\">A better reference would be someone who supports you and your performance but limits their conversations to describe your contributions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"7b22\">Do not be afraid to ask for references from managers who were tougher on you; ideally, they\u2019ll discuss your past performance objectively. This can make them ideal candidates for discussing your weaker points. What are the areas in which they were less satisfied with you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"5e51\">A list of your peers, former colleagues or direct reports who have agreed to write recommendations should be created immediately upon accepting a new <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link \" title=\"job offer\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/how-to-turn-down-a-job-offer-or-reject-a-counter-offer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">job offer<\/a>. LinkedIn should be an integral component of this discussion because it can help facilitate these conversations and provide immediate results.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"5b58\">Would you hire them again if given another opportunity to do so?<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"d917\">The question is straightforward, but the answer can be telling. Many employers are looking for reasons not to hire a candidate, so having someone acknowledge that they would personally rehire you provides compelling information about your abilities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"88fb\">A poor reference can be disastrous. The only acceptable response to the question is, \u2018Yes, I would hire them again.\u2019 <a title=\"Interview Anxiety \u2013 Know How to get your nerves under control\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/interview-anxiety-know-how-to-get-your-nerves-under-control\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Knowing this in advance allows you to prepare for this likely topic of discussion during an interview<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"56ef\">What do they like most about working with them?<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"97ba\">This is another straightforward question, but the answer could be telling. Is it their work ethic? Their leadership abilities? Their ability to complete tasks within a given deadline? By understanding what someone likes most about working with you, an employer can gain insight into your most significant selling point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"b807\">What is your relationship with the person being referenced?<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"82db\">There is a big difference between getting a recommendation from a former boss and receiving one from an intern you supervised for two weeks. The first provides greater context to your work, whereas the second would provide little insight to those reading it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"a05d\">When someone asks you to <a title=\"How To Write A Speculative Cover Letter(Contains Winning Examples)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/how-to-write-a-speculative-cover-letter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">write them a reference letter<\/a>, ask about their relationship with the referenced person and the information they seek from you. This will help you write a more compelling letter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"0eda\">For example, an entry-level candidate looking to break into the professional world with little work experience should primarily highlight their ability to learn quickly and perform well in a team environment. If they have worked for large corporations<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"794f\">What of their strengths or weaknesses may be important for me to know about them?<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"3718\">The answer to this question is perhaps the most telling. Even in an interview, most candidates cannot speak about their weaknesses for fear of accepting constructive criticism or lacking self-awareness. Therefore, <a title=\"Good Questions To Ask An Interviewer: Plus Bonus Tip\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jobsrmine.com\/blog\/what-questions-to-ask-an-interviewer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">asking for help beforehand can provide you with a strong point of discussion when it arises during an interview<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"72ea\">A few more questions that you can ask are listed below<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Would you say that they\u2019re a good communicator (and why)?<\/li><li>How many years have they known you?<\/li><li>Do they know your work ethic\/style well enough to describe it accurately?<\/li><li>What are some of their best qualities?<\/li><li>Why do they think you\u2019re a good worker?<\/li><li>What is something you might not want me to know about why this person would be a bad reference for me?<\/li><li>How long have you known the person being referenced?<\/li><li>This is another essential detail that can give you a more vital idea of your contact\u2019s reference. If they\u2019ve only worked with someone for five years, it likely won\u2019t be as strong compared to one who has known them for 10 or 15 years. Ask about their availability and willingness to provide letters, references, or recommendations before accepting any offer.<\/li><li>What questions can be asked of those who promised to serve as a reference?<\/li><li>What should red flags signal the total unavailability of the person being referenced?<\/li><li>Would it be better if they were contacted by e-mail or telephone?<\/li><li>What is the best time of day to contact them?<\/li><li>Is there a day when they are the busiest, so I should avoid contacting them then?<\/li><li>Is there anything else you can share about this person or your relationship with them that will help me mention you in my job application?<\/li><li>Would you recommend this person to a potential employer who will show up on time and do what needs to be done without supervision?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"2488\">Start thinking about those who can serve as a job reference early in the career search. Make lists, and approach these individuals with your requests in the most professional manner possible. Always offer assistance in return, and keep the lines of communication open.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"8867\">You should ask your reference if they would be willing to act as a reference for future employers. Ask them what questions they think potential employers might ask about you and how their answers reflect your character. You want people who will give you an honest opinion without holding back because of personal feelings or biases. Remember that these references could make or break someone\u2019s chances of getting hired, so it\u2019s essential not to take this question lightly!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From the job seeker\u2019s perspective, the idea of asking reference questions seems simple enough. Yet this task is often forgotten or left for last-minute as time runs out. 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